Research has shown that couples that have fun together build a strong foundation of shared memories that they can draw on when the hard times come. So, play with each other, express your sense of humor and make a point to spend time doing the things you both enjoy.
The key to a get a fun and relaxed marriage is knowing when to stop trying to control everything. On your wedding day don’t get bogged down in ensuring the weather is perfect or making sure your guests don’t stray from the designated confetti photo area – instead focus on planning a celebration that reflects you and your partner and is as stress free as possible.
Be brave and talk through the non-fun stuff – If you have a disagreement with your partner it’s important to have that conversation early on. Resentment only builds when issues fester – so deal with the hard stuff head on and ensure that fun and laughter remain the mainstays of your marriage.
Plan a relaxed wedding day
Take a little time the night before your wedding to lay out all of your outfits and accessories so you don’t have to think about them or run out of time in the morning. For the same reason, have a “relaxation kit” that you can pull out of your bag throughout the day to help you calm down if the stress starts to rise.
Lastly, don’t invite 100 people – the more family members you have at your wedding the more arguments you’ll likely have. Be firm with your boundaries and only invite the people you really want to be there – it will make for a much happier and less stressful event.
On your wedding day be sure to schedule a couple of hours just for the two of you to go somewhere private (or ask your photographer to hide away somewhere nearby) and spend some time laughing, cuddling and generally enjoying the fact that you just got married! It’s an amazing feeling that will carry you through the rest of the day.